Lessons

Never underestimate the amount of work - overestimate it - but start.

I fucked up Hellauer's Timeline so fucking bad that I had an emotional cocktail about getting it done in 2 days. (Sunday and today.). Related very much to the last lesson: Never overpromise - in fact, never promise anything if you are not 1000% sure you can keep it or INTEND to keep it. I have this (devilish) voice that tells me I do not need to hold promises, it's more of a conditioned behaviour

Don't overpromise a timeline - ever.

Often found myself setting timelines I can't meet - out of ignorance of reality - results in inconvenience for everybody and bad mood. Get things done FAST.

Earn your word with action

You only deserve to speak of things when your actions show the respect necessary.

Trust the process of life itself (Jung).

Trust the process of life itself. The psyche, like nature, has its own intelligence and rhythm. Sometimes periods of confusion, loss, or apparent meaninglessness are necessary precursors to new growth.

Don't get walked over.

Know what you want. Demand things. Stand firm. Trust the process and yourself.

Don't rely on discipline. Rely on the duty you have to yourself.

There is no benefit in doubt. I need to carry myself. This reflects in self worth, which reflects in worth outside